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Orgasm: Ask for it by name

If you want something, ask for it! And if you want an orgasm, ask for that too. Great sex does not "just happen", it's not magic either. It's trial and error, testing techniques over time, learned response. So why not speed up the process a little and tell your partner what you like. Asking for orgasms shows your partner that you want to enhance your relationship. That there is a higher level of trust and intimacy between the two of you.

While a guiding hand during the act can make a world of difference, wait until you are out of the sack to bring up this topic. Let's not be critical of our partner either. Creating hurt feelings or telling your partner they are providing a substandard performance will not help either of you. Instead, zero in on what your partner does right. Let them know that you love, extended foreplay, kissing, cuddling, oral stimulation, ... or whatever. And let him or her know you want MORE of it. If there is something you might want your partner to try, now is the time to bring it up. After you've told him or her what they are doing right! Don't be surprised if this conversation leads to an extended turn in the sheets.

Plan your conversation out before hand. By praising, not panning your partners skills at lovemaking, you'll open up a conversation about how you can both increase the energy, desire, infatuation, and orgasms in your relationship.

Orgasm CAT style:

CAT position (Coital Alignment Technique) This is a twist on the missionary position. have your man keep his pelvis as high on you as possible. He should rest his weight on your pelvis, giving you direct contact where you want it most, while supporting himself on his arms. Wrap you legs around his thighs, resting your ankles on his calves. Move pelvises only in a steady rhythm until you both orgasm together. Locked together at the pelvis, the woman can slow the man down, making it last longer enough for her to get to that orgasm. The key is keeping the pelvises together while making it comfortable for the woman. A modification you can try is having the woman on top. This can work better if the woman is petite and the man part linebacker. We don't want to have any petite women squashed in search of an orgasm.

Better Oral Orgasm:

"Men can take a long time to reach orgasm if your moves aren't consistent as they're nearing the Big O, "says certified sex educator Lou Paget, author of Hot Mamas. But by mastering one simple move, you can ensure a speedy finish. Use your mouth on just the top inch and 1/2 of him. Using only your index finger and thumb under your mouth, covering your mouth. Move your hand gently, separate from your mouth. Keep alternating the speed of your mouth and hand movements until you feel he is close, then apply consistent pressure by tightening your hand slightly, still only using your index finger and thumb with rapid movements. This way your hand does most of the work and you'll still have energy for round two!

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